Writing
Read here if you want to know how I think before you book.
These essays cover perfectionism, overcontrol, religious harm, and meaning.
They are short, practical, and meant to help you decide whether this approach makes sense for you.

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Feb 2026
Perfectionism as a Structural Problem
Perfectionism is less a personality style and more a pattern that links worth, control, and threat prediction.
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The Adjacent Possible
The adjacent possible is the next workable move that keeps you grounded while expanding your range.
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When Leaving a Faith System Feels Like Losing Gravity
After coercive faith environments, clients often lose the organizing structure that once defined meaning, authority, and identity.
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