Writing

Writing about the things that keep getting mistaken for personal failures.

Perfectionism, overcontrol, religious harm, and the systems around them.

A few essays about perfectionism, religious harm, ordinary life, and the strange logic of being a person.

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Practice

Jul 2026

On the gap between what is possible in theory and what is actually reachable next.

Jun 2026

Why leaving a coercive faith system can feel disorienting even when you know it was harming you.

May 2026

Why perfectionism is not mainly about high standards, and why better advice is rarely enough.